I've Had Sex

Have you had previous sexual relations?
I don’t mind if you did.
We’re human.
If it’s not right, then it applies to both of us.
I’m only asking you because I’d like to tell you about my experiences.
I don’t mind if you’re not a virgin.

You might think I’m close-minded and conservative,
But there are things I believe stem from human nature.
I know you might not have had any previous experiences.
Or that no one’s even so much as held your hand before.
But I’ve had previous experiences and it’s your right to know about them,
And decide whether you want to be with me or not.
You should take your time to think about it.

I asked you this question in case you were too scared to talk to me or ask me.
I don’t have the right to ask about your past.
But I think it’s important to talk about this.
There’s no such thing as a woman’s virginity.
There’s no difference between a man and a woman’s virginity.

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